I'm familiar with some aspects of formal and informal forms of speech from when I learned French. But that's the technical concept of the words and grammar, not necessarily the social usage of it amongst elves in Middle-earth.
I have a few questions about a person in a socially superior position meetings a social inferior.
I'll list different speech options and my understanding of the implications:
1) Both could use formal speech to each other. This would indicate respect for each other.
2) If the inferior were to start using informal speech to their superior, it would be rude. If the superior started using informal speech to their inferior, it would be rude and show a lack of respect.
3) If they were already friends, both could use informal speech with each other, in private or amongst a group of mutual friends. This would indicate friendship and respect for each other.
4) If, however, non-friends were present, would the use of informal speech by the inferior be acceptable? Or would it be unacceptable? Would the use of informal speech by the superior be acceptable as mark of friendship and respect, or would it be a social put-down showing a lack of respect to the inferior. Would use of informal speech by the inferior be acceptable AFTER their superior used informal speech to them?
5) Let's say the superior recognizes an immediate bond with an inferior they just met, or perhaps an ancestor or sibling of the inferior was a dear friend of the superior. Would asking the inferior to address them informally be a mark of respect and friendship? Or condescending? Or either, depending upon context? (Such as...)
Thanks!